Debra L. (Coburn) Neddo, age 63, passed away on Saturday morning, February 24, 2018 in The Villages, Florida, surrounded with the love of family and friends after courageous battles with cancer. She was born December 21, 1954 in Watertown, NY, and spent most of her youth living in Evans Mills, graduating in 1973 from Indian River Central School. After graduation Debra worked at the former Mercy Hospital in the Administration Department. Her intelligence and kindness called her to the field of nursing. Determined and dedicated, she worked days and attended night classes at SUNY Canton. She had a rewarding career for many years as an RN at House of the Good Samaritan hospital while living in Watertown and, after moving to The Villages in 2008, at The Villages Regional Hospital where she became a Certified Rehab RN.
Debra married Alfred Edward Neddo, III on November 28, 1992. Ed predeceased her in November 2016, with Debra nursing him through his hospice period. Her father, Leonard C. Coburn, Sr., also preceded her in death this past June 2017, just as she learned of her own reoccurrence of cancer. She wrote: “Let the journey begin (again), this is going to be one hell of a fight” as she bravely moved forward.
She is survived by a son: Joel Coburn, MSW, of Northhampton, MA, her mother: Donna Pooler (Bob), The Villages, FL, Step-mother: Winnie Coburn, Sackets Harbor, NY, sisters: Candice Alguire Hensler, Lynnwood, WA, Shelly Alguire Richard (Mark), Dublin, GA, and Katie Pooler, Clayton, NY, brothers: Larry Coburn (Erin), Watertown, NY, Michael Coburn (Lisa), Vero Beach, FL, Randal Coburn (Athena), Glenmont, NY, Leonard C. Coburn, Jr. (Lori), Adams, NY, Cary Coburn, Virginia Beach, VA, and Tracy Coburn (Ann), Adams, NY, stepsons: Anthony Neddo (Justina) and Rich Neddo (Stacy), both of Watertown, NY, several nieces, nephews, cousins, MANY dear friends in New York and Florida, and her current beloved animal children - her cat: Tasha and her Paso Fino: Rosa Maja de Vez.
A celebration of her life was held in The Villages by the nursing staff of The Villages Regional Hospital and a memorial honoring her will be placed in the hospital garden. The nurses and doctors she worked with each made a special visit to her in her final days and she appropriately held ‘Queen’ status as a patient there as she passed. Numerous colleagues and patients knew, and will remember, Debra for her warm smile, contagious laugh, and great compassion.
Debra enjoyed spending time with friends and family, dancing to live music, traveling, beach walks, shopping, loving on her cat(s) and adventuring with her beloved horse, Rosa. As an animal lover she didn’t mind being considered the ‘crazy cat lady’ on each occasion of a feral cat rescue (some of which she adopted into her home, naming one “Stormy”) and she was absolutely thrilled to have her own horse again living in Florida. Time spent at the Preiss farm with her Rosa, trail riding with friends, and giving attention to all the other horses were amongst her best moments. She was a giver and caretaker at heart, offering of herself to anyone in need. Debra maintained long-distance and life-long friendships. Love never dies.
Planning is underway for a memorial Celebration of Life for both Debra and Ed, to be held this summer in Watertown, NY, after a private family gathering for interment of the ashes.